Life Coach Gerri

Who needs help? Certainly not me!

Gerri's Book

You should know better.

You can only depend on yourself

Self sufficiency is good.

Did you get those messages growing up too? I really learned how off kilter they are when I wrote my first book, “Trust God and Buy Broccoli, a Spiritual Approach to Weight Loss.” After I finished the rough manuscript, I went through it, finding errors and fixing them. I ran spell check.

Then I went through it a second time, changed some sentence structure, added a few paragraphs, an additional chapter. There were probably a half dozen more re-writes.

Then I asked a good friend, who’s excellent grammar and sentence structure I admired. More re-writes. I asked two more friends and more re-writes. Finally my baby went to the publisher. Can you imagine the bruises on my first class ego when she suggested that I hire a professional editor? Geeze! More money! Luckily I knew of a professional editor and we agreed upon a price. More revisions. And we finally went to print. Boy was I ever proud of my baby.

A blind friend asked if it would be coming out in Braille? I hadn’t planned on that. I trustingly sent her my manuscript in Word, which her computer could read. I couldn’t wait to hear her kudos on my wonderful book. Instead, her first email informed me that there were many errors, incuding the first page which said my book was wrritten by Gerri Helms. I was mortified. How come nobody caught that? Geeze!

One of my first sales questioned the ingredients on one of the recipes. I checked and found that the measure on two of the ingredients was reversed! Horrors! I tried the recipe with the error, and while it worked, it was not terrific.

I talked with my editor and she said to wait six months and we’d check again for errors and do a reprint. In the meantime, I printed some labels and fixed the recipe on any copies I sold. And when I signed the books, I wrote my name right over the top of the misspelled wrritten.

I proofed the book again and found a total of NINE errors to be fixed for the next printing. Can you imagine, with all the help I sought, both friends and professionals, my book was not ‘perfect.’ I would be willing to be that you could go through it and find more errors today.

When my second publication came out (contributing author to The ART of Grandparenting), Editor and Publisher Valerie Connelly made a few suggestions which really made the story even better. Many have said that my chapter is the funniest in the book! While it would have been ‘okay’ on it’s own, Valerie’s help made it fantastic!

I am not an island. While I have great talents, when I combine them with expertise of others, my end result is better.

 So, consider this. Do you ask for help? Perhaps your single efforts are reaping great returns but how much better could it be with additional input? Could a fresh perspective be all you need to rocket your business/personal goal to an entirely new dimension?

Merry Christmas from Gerri & Pooh Bear

Happy Holidays!

It seems that this time of year I am more aware of the gifts in my life and wish to be grateful. This past week, I experienced a miracle of sorts, and I’m grateful beyond words.

I hear a ringing in my ears – have for as far back as I can remember. When my sisters were here this summer for my birthday, Sandy commented on the beautiful cricket sounds, and I couldn’t hear them. That was very discouraging, but it lead me to at least have my hearing professionally checked. The doctor recommended hearing aids.

I’ve had my new hearing aids for five days and am amazed at what I can now hear. Do you know that flip-flop sandals make a funny noise with each step you take. Last night, I heard my dinner ‘sizzle’. Of course, some of the sounds are jarring, like at church on Sunday, the preacher asked us to please sit, and wow, do those pews creak! The man behind us was talking with his wife and I was turning around, and answering him! I thought he was talking to me. I finally apologized and explained that I’m a new hearing aid wearer! He just smiled.

Tomorrow evening, my home will be filled with the sounds of family and the paper tear of gifts being unwrapped. What a joyful time to hear.

I pray that you take some time today to listen to what is around you. We take so much for granted. Don’t miss the sounds of the season.

I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas, Happy Chanakuh and Happy Holidays, whatever you may be celebrating.

We face them every day – distractions and interruptions! Joe Carroccio has a radio show where he addresses this challenge to every area of our lives. I had the privilege of spending time with Joe on Sunday, as a guest on his fantastic radio show. You can listen to our lively conversation at this website – http://www.achieveradio.com/archplayer.php?showname=The Law of Distraction and Interuption&ShowURL=http://audio.achieveradio.com/law-of-distraction/Dec-06-2009-at-04-00PM—Law_of_Distraction.mp3.

When I was a community association manager, my day was a juggling act of distractions and interruptions. Looking back, interruptions were part of the job! I could be in the midst of preparing a bank deposit when someone might come in to report a problem with street lights. If you work with people, interruptions are a given! How do we deal with those people, without making them feel like a distraction?

I strived to make everyone who walked in the door feel like they were the most important person in my life. If these people are perceived as ain interruption, that will come out in your voice, facial expressions and body language. Maybe your first step would be to change how you look at interruptions, as not a bump in the road, but part of the journey. They are going to happen. We may as well be ready for them. Once the ‘interrupter’ is perceived as part of the job, rather than a distraction, it might become a pleasant encounter, rather than an opportunity for defensiveness.

What interruptions and distractions might be on the horizon for you, with the upcoming holidays? How can you change your perception of them and make it a positive experience?

Did you know that I am a NASCAR fan? Every year, Dave and I head to Homestead, FL for the final race of the season. It is one of our favorite get-aways. The races were full of excitement for us this year, including a blown RV tire on the FL Turnpike as we headed for the racetrack. Luckily, there are two tires on either side of the wheel, which safely got us to the parking area. The tow service arrived in plenty of time to change the $600 tire and not miss the driver introductions. “My” driver did not finish well, but all told, they gave us quite a show.

Instead of heading home on Monday, we continued south and stayed at the Naval Air Station in Key West for the rest of the week. What fun! We celebrated a non-traditional Thanksgiving in a restaurant, opting for local seafood rather than turkey! I’ll cook our bird this weekend for my family.

This was our first time at mile marker zero. How many times  in my life however, did I start over, at the beginning? It takes courage, and willingness to step out onto a different path. Four years ago, I walked away from a twenty-five year career to start my coaching practice and fulfill a lifelong dream of becoming a published author. Listen to this latest radio interview about  Trust God and Buy Broccoli, my first book published in 2007 – http://www.thechristianauthorsshow.com/ with Don McCauley on the Christian Author Show!

If dreams are just something you do when your eyes are closed, dare to look for your zero mile marker and start making those dreams come true.

Mile Marker Zero