Who are your people?

I was reading an online newsletter today http://www.stonecircleonline.org and paused to ponder. Who are my people? Who are the people that have influenced me and have been my partners on this path to my present person?

Of course, in my early life, family influenced my early morals and convictions. As I sprouted wings and soared on my own, many others along the way made both positive and negative impacts on my direction.

Right or wrong, all those life experiences are part of who I am today. I do not have regrets for the harder lessons, for they’ve contributed to my compassion for others who experience those same challenges. We come out on the other side, eventually.

In my present life, some stand out as models, folks I’d like to emulate. There’s Gloria, who teaches me integrity and stick-to-it-iveness. How I longed to birth the book inside of me that begged to be born, yet I wrote nothing. Then Coach Lorraine suggested that one who wishes to be published must apply a pen to paper. Can you imagine the pride I feel as my second book nears completion?

And there’s my sweet husband, David. He retired four years ago and employs balance in his life. Chores take up no more than one and a half hours a day. He has two ‘fun’ part-time jobs. He sleeps until nine, unless something prevents that. His philosophy of ‘no matter where you go, there you are’, inspires me to stay in the moment, where I used to hurry to be somewhere else, other than where I was.

And who are YOUR people?

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FIFTY IS NIFTY!

Coach Lorraine Edey and I are in the process of creating a new book, “Fifty is Nifty” – How twenty women reinvented their lives after fifty years old.

If you are a women who’s taken a new path, we want to talk to you, for possible inclusion in our book. Perhaps you know of a woman who’s greatly impacted your life by her daring new life-adventure. Or maybe it’s you!

If you are interested or want to tell us about some nifty-fifty woman in your life, please contact me. We want to talk with you!

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Achieving Goals

Five months of 2009 are nearly behind us. Did you set a goal as part of your New Year’s resolution? What’s happening with it? Many people really are not sure how to set a goal.  Perhaps past goals weren’t successful and there’s an underlying fear of failing again. I can guarantee one thing, in order to achieve goals, we have to set them!


Setting a great goal does not necessarily insure achieving it. I can set a goal of becoming a great artist, buy brushes, easels, canvas and paint, but that may not mean I’ll be a famous painter!  Maybe a better goal would be to take some art classes first, to determine if I really like painting and if I’m any good.


The fact is that most of us don’t achieve our goals, because we don’t really believe that we can reach the goal. The first step to successful goal achievement, regardless of your process or the steps you follow in setting your goal, is to absolutely believe that you can accomplish it.


Is your goal ambitious enough to cause you to stretch a bit? Are you able to really buy into the idea that you are capable of reaching it? If there’s any doubt in your mind that you can reach the goal, you probably won’t.


What we believe in, becomes real. Action comes from believing that we can achieve, and action leads to results! What can we do if doubt creeps in? Sometime it’s as simple as acting as if. Can you visualize what it will be like when you reach that goal? This can help you to stay motivated.


What’s your goal? Is it an unrequited New Year’s resolution, with no real plan of action? Maybe you just need a little kick start. If I can help, please call for a complimentary session.

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